Tuesday, 17 January 2017

How not to be nervous

Nervousness is as much a reason for failure as much as lack of preparation or anything else. This reason single handedly ruins your hardwork, patuence and devotion making yiur goal unachievable.

Heres some of the things thta i have learned after failing or not achieving my set target

Overconfidence - No matter how great a genius you are, Overconfidence will ruin you.

Expect the worst-Prepare for the worst case scenario and hope for the best, hope is a weapon.

Hold your nerves-Getting irritated, anxious would only harm you try to calm down,

Try to be hydrated-helps maintian your stress level.

When in extreme stress lie down, this relieves you of your stress, when you lie down your body sees this as a more comfortable way of being yourself and your body has a proper flow of blood and you feel better.

Calm down-Studies have consistently proven that being calm and cool helps your brain to function properly and take relevant and better decisions.

Believe in yourself - Believe that you can achieve it but dont let this turn into your Overconfidence.

Stay positive-By this I mean dont be mean to yourself and take criticism with a straight face and take it on the chin.

Have a cool down period- Set some days or hours as that, if, you are not able to achieve your goal would be enough to get over this feeling of sadness and utter disgust.

You will be successful if you donot let Nervousness get better of you however a little of it is necessary to be successful in life, God bless you.

Monday, 16 January 2017

Success - whats it?

Success

Success generally defined as an accomplishment of an aim or target, something that you dont have but would like to have.
But is that all? Success has been so narrow now that achievement of a particular goal feela like a work a mundane job target that you must achieve when in fact Success is a subjective topic whose path and achievement is objeyin nature, or putting it simply what is success for me may not be success for you but my path to achieve what I believe is success maybe tougher or easier than you to achieve the same  target. 
Success is not just a goal that you have to achieve its more like a feeling that you must feel and live. 
Its an addictive element without which life is not fighting for,its what succeed defeats setbacks, and blows. 

What we define as success may not have anything to do with success in the first place, achieving highest grade is a success?  Maybe, but having more than a 1000+ views on blogs too is success.  Now, look at both these examples they are different sets of situations yet successful in their own way yet the patg to achieve these is difficult. You cannot measure success, you can't compare success, then how can you define success for someone else. 

When the society thrusts you upon its will and define in ita language the meaning of success, go on rebel and define your own definition of success because the path to your goal is tough but you know what, you will achieve it, why?  You chose your goal and thats success for you. 

FRIENDS

The day  we met
Was the day I felt peace is here to stay
Not because the demons left
Or humans found peace is the way
Not because the gods of the earth came down my way
But because I got someone for me who would stay
Not leave me hanging 
Would be with me  through the end of the day
The day ends  without waiting
Friendship stays without judging
Hurtful words are the way of life
Not a man has gone down in the history without crying
Your words cannot pierce my heart  or my life
For  when my heart shrieks with sadness I hear your soul cry
To you my friend  I say this , the day  is not here to stay
The great kings went down into the soil of clay
Me and you are here to stay
For friendship is here to stay
Open your arms for the love coming your way
My love is not unconditional you know ,why?
You remember my dear we sign an agreement stitching my heart and your soul
You break my heart you break thy soul
This my friend is a journey  a journey to the center of love for you are mine and I share you with none

May  this bond stay…