Sunday, 20 December 2015

Stop wearing.SPECTACLES


Yes stop wearing Spectacles,
but what is it I am talking about
without further beating the bush I wanna ask you something, Have you ever been told to step in someones shoes and walk their path, to go down their path and understand the lives of other.
Indeed there must have been more than one such situation.

Many of us wear a spectacle of entitlement and its through these pair of glasses that we see and define the world around us.Lets say for example, I am an Indian and if you are a Westerner how would you see ,you may see me as someone whose country is in poverty,Sundar Pichai,joint Nobel laureate among other, While some of you maybe correct in your presumption of my country,lemme ask you how did you get this idea?

You got this idea through the media and people who in turn got their idea from more or less same sources.You immediately saw me in different light,you may have imagined my looks or dress too.
This is the thing I am talking about, the word Indian triggered a bias, you cannot see my world when you are wearing your glasses,glasses of racism, while its not bad to have a predefined image for a community,it,however gives rise to stereotypes.

When you wear a spectacle of bias you let your eyes see what you want it to see and not the full picture,when you have a pair of glasses which wont show a whole picture  how can you even step into someones shoes and think about them.

Blaming a community for all the wrongs in the world is bad, Theres bad in every community,yes,again if this made you say ah! heres a preacher,then search on web theres ton of information to prove this fact.What we do now-a-days is that we take one piece of informatioan and use it to turn that to harass and blame other without sitting and understanding what must have encouraged him/her to commit a crime because the spectacles limit our vision.

When we limit our vision we give the extremist from each spectrum a fodder to fight and create chaos which ensure our collective defeat but their advancement.

Remove your glasses and see the clear world,research and think.You have the power to create a better world,remove the bias of religion and race the world is clear and beautiful

Depression-the silent killer

I AM SORRY FOR NOT POSTING REGULARLY ,JERK I KNOW
I WILL POST LIKE 3 POSTS   IN A WEEK
Depression is a common word and is most often related to young  adults.... the YOLO gen or Gen Y
Guys today in this blog I am serious because this thing can  shit the freak out of a person and the worst part is you gotta have no idea that someone in your family , friends has it, worse even the person sometime have no freaking clue that there is depression.
So my dear freinds out there i am sorry once again for not posting for so long its idiotic i know my bad...... anyway

look guys the symptoms are sometime so mundane that we tend to ignore them its a heck of a disease man i swear God this is a damn disease , its yo gangsta it'll screw the hell out of you

it results in suicide,collapse of family, breakup , mental disorder

well if you are in a relationship and had a breakup or fight , i would beg you to mend it if you were serious or apologise because that one word can break up someone to a level you have no idea
1) winter blues - just in case a weather change occurs (it would obviously) it may happen you may feel bad ,lack confidence but this is temporary
2)do you smoke ? well you just got another reason to kick that out of your house
Culprit -Nicotine
3)do you know about Thyroid ?yeah must have heard of it, right?  Its a butterfly-shaped gland in the neck. it basically releases hormone ,if it doesnot then boy! you may fall in the red zone
4) booze! booze! my party night no sleeping party , full house party , are you a TGIF freak
your bad sleeping habits can put your biological clock go mad ...and then boom!
"If you don't sleep, you don't have time to replenish [brain cells], the brain stops functioning well, and one of the many factors that could lead to is depression," says Matthew Edlund, MD, director of the Center for Circadian Medicine, in Sarasota, Fla., and author of The Power of Rest.
5)numerous study have point a finger at facebook addiction , not ith enough scientific backing though but look whos behind you  !, hell so addicted man you forgot  no one there ,

Parents- bad parenting and abuse can put children at risks of depression ...
6) Conflict - dont mess with your partner if he/she is not a cool person!

eat omega 3 , fish actually , CHOCOLATE (eating dark chocolate  every day for two weeks reduced stress hormones, including cortisol) not too much ........listem to your mom eat fruits and veggies, coconut,banana

SO GUYS always help such people be kind ,dont be rude be helpful,and be happy and make everyone smile love you .........see ya

If you want me to talk about something e-mail me....i ll do my best to search and write
PLEASE COMMENT , please even if its improving you can be frank

Monday, 6 April 2015

STAND out of the crowd ..Proud to be different!

hi everyone....
This topic lies at the core of my heart , this is something which makes me emotional everytime I think of it ...
I am different and so are you my friends deep inside you.. are a diamond in the making sharping your blunt edges every day but...not everyone can understand  you... well be proud to be  who you are !

c'mon lets think about something which you are proud of but no one else understands that and you feel isolated and if this is something to which you can relate to, then my dear friend you are an amazing creation and believe me its amazing and if you are proud and brave enough to speak about your talents , if you are differently able, if your thoughts are radical and good for society but only a few can understand... well not everyone can afford diamonds can they? so why be scared ? why be humiliated? why why ....? ask
shout and say i am different and if you can boast of being different..... I love you so much!

I am not thinking about bland food... are you..? why did i ask such a weird silly question my diamond the world is boring without ..you ...man what are you waiting for your extraordinary mind is not for standardized people
oh trust me they are envious of you, crabs as i call them....seen crabs they pull each other down so one can climb up....
CHEER CHEER , Easter just went by and i realized it gave me a special gift it gave me ways to respect my ambitions and not everyone can understand me!!!!!!!!!


Back to fun days....

Hi everyone,
back to fun , well you must have got a hint from the title, childhood......the fun days....the carefree joy of this natural beauty , those little sweet lies and cute smile a lovely face glowing like gold, a heart as pure as a diamond,  those carefree moments which gave immense joy, do what you like, exploring a billion new things, curious face waiting to see a cheerful smile and a lovely day.... running and jumping all day.....ah! those moments

just when you have recalled all those joys.....ponder upon why overthink  so much about things which may not affect you as much....things that wont matter after a year...staying calm will help you panicking won't just in case you want that project of yours to be the best or that rose wrapped in the most innovative way for your crush express it in the best possible way, want to win hearts my friends be calm.... be calm

when you grow up....life fastens up suddenly you feel tensed, working day in and out , anxiously waiting for results worrying thats all but my friend take a break  whats the hurry..... take a seat have a glass of water think and smile for that joy was priceless, memories are full of love no heart break....!!!
 my friend childhood its gone but age is just a number after all add life to days!


ENJOY cheers!

Sunday, 5 April 2015

Success on heels of failure

Hi everyone,
Yeah i know most of us have heard such phrases in life - success on heels of failure, try try till you succeed and stuffs, Don't worry this blog isn't about those stuffs or counselling. Consider me as a friend here I am no philosopher, trust me.
failure ,common that's truly a big word lets keep it simple unsuccessful ..... yeah really, THERE IS THIS DAY YOU ARE ALONE IN YOURSELF, ANXIOUS and sad you are unsuccessful, you are worried what people may say, people may say a thousand phrases and bring your morale down to a level where you wont trust yourself, your head will spin recalling a thousand words millions hope and a dashed dream in front of you.....while reading this you may think why the hell is this guy making me recall this stuffs..... but wait hold on a sec, go back into your dream memory lane into that narrow lane to that bin where your shattered hope lies now go back further 
remember that day you proudly told yourself i will do it ...... remember that smile on your lovely face 
remember how for a moment the time stopped your heart pumped up and you were on cloud 9......
Ask yourself if today you want to cry and regret why didn't you quit before.....Ask yourself a 100 times why you took that one single small step because your heart knew, your brain realized the hero in you that one feeling that one hope all your hopes are shattered ! wait hold on don't be anxious sit , don't overthink , why did it happen ? is this your death bed? crying for what , for chasing your dream or believing that you have that ability to rise to challenges because you can do it, because you are your own master.
LOVE YOURSELF my friend love your dream , are you scared of your dream! then yes my friend you are in the right direction.....
YOU ITS YOU , ITS YOUR SUCCESS , A SWEET NECTAR IS ON YOUR WAY , MY DEAR SUPERHERO for the world is yours and you my friend can do wonders, in you theres a storm , a never ending storm which rises and rises   after unsuccessful attempts but when its on its peak NO ONE CAN STOP YOU, LIVE YOUR DREAM SHOW THE WORLD 
SAY TO THE WORLD I AM WHO I AM AND I AM A GEM! RISE AND RISE SKY IS NOT THE LIMIT ITS YOU WHO SET THE LIMIT, REMEMBER WE ARE GOING TO MARS!!!!!