How not to be nervous

Nervousness is as much a reason for failure as much as lack of preparation or anything else. This reason single handedly ruins your hardwork, patuence and devotion making yiur goal unachievable.

Heres some of the things thta i have learned after failing or not achieving my set target

Overconfidence - No matter how great a genius you are, Overconfidence will ruin you.

Expect the worst-Prepare for the worst case scenario and hope for the best, hope is a weapon.

Hold your nerves-Getting irritated, anxious would only harm you try to calm down,

Try to be hydrated-helps maintian your stress level.

When in extreme stress lie down, this relieves you of your stress, when you lie down your body sees this as a more comfortable way of being yourself and your body has a proper flow of blood and you feel better.

Calm down-Studies have consistently proven that being calm and cool helps your brain to function properly and take relevant and better decisions.

Believe in yourself - Believe that you can achieve it but dont let this turn into your Overconfidence.

Stay positive-By this I mean dont be mean to yourself and take criticism with a straight face and take it on the chin.

Have a cool down period- Set some days or hours as that, if, you are not able to achieve your goal would be enough to get over this feeling of sadness and utter disgust.

You will be successful if you donot let Nervousness get better of you however a little of it is necessary to be successful in life, God bless you.

Success - whats it?

Success

Success generally defined as an accomplishment of an aim or target, something that you dont have but would like to have.
But is that all? Success has been so narrow now that achievement of a particular goal feela like a work a mundane job target that you must achieve when in fact Success is a subjective topic whose path and achievement is objeyin nature, or putting it simply what is success for me may not be success for you but my path to achieve what I believe is success maybe tougher or easier than you to achieve the same  target. 

Success is not just a goal that you have to achieve its more like a feeling that you must feel and live. 

Its an addictive element without which life is not fighting for,its what succeed defeats setbacks, and blows. 

What we define as success may not have anything to do with success in the first place, achieving highest grade is a success?  Maybe, but having more than a 1000+ views on blogs too is success.  Now, look at both these examples they are different sets of situations yet successful in their own way yet the patg to achieve these is difficult. You cannot measure success, you can't compare success, then how can you define success for someone else. 

When the society thrusts you upon its will and define in ita language the meaning of success, go on rebel and define your own definition of success because the path to your goal is tough but you know what, you will achieve it, why?  You chose your goal and thats success for you. 

FRIENDS

The day  we met

Was the day I felt peace is here to stay

Not because the demons left

Or humans found peace is the way

Not because the gods of the earth came down my way

But because I got someone for me who would stay

Not leave me hanging 

Would be with me  through the end of the day

The day ends  without waiting

Friendship stays without judging

Hurtful words are the way of life

Not a man has gone down in the history without crying

Your words cannot pierce my heart  or my life

For  when my heart shrieks with sadness I hear your soul cry

To you my friend  I say this , the day  is not here to stay

The great kings went down into the soil of clay

Me and you are here to stay

For friendship is here to stay

Open your arms for the love coming your way

My love is not unconditional you know ,why?

You remember my dear we sign an agreement stitching my heart and your soul

You break my heart you break thy soul

This my friend is a journey  a journey to the center of love for you are mine and I share you with none

May  this bond stay…

Stop wearing.SPECTACLES

Yes stop wearing Spectacles,
but what is it I am talking about
without further beating the bush I wanna ask you something, Have you ever been told to step in someones shoes and walk their path, to go down their path and understand the lives of other.
Indeed there must have been more than one such situation.

Many of us wear a spectacle of entitlement and its through these pair of glasses that we see and define the world around us.Lets say for example, I am an Indian and if you are a Westerner how would you see ,you may see me as someone whose country is in poverty,Sundar Pichai,joint Nobel laureate among other, While some of you maybe correct in your presumption of my country,lemme ask you how did you get this idea?

You got this idea through the media and people who in turn got their idea from more or less same sources.You immediately saw me in different light,you may have imagined my looks or dress too.
This is the thing I am talking about, the word Indian triggered a bias, you cannot see my world when you are wearing your glasses,glasses of racism, while its not bad to have a predefined image for a community,it,however gives rise to stereotypes.

When you wear a spectacle of bias you let your eyes see what you want it to see and not the full picture,when you have a pair of glasses which wont show a whole picture  how can you even step into someones shoes and think about them.

Blaming a community for all the wrongs in the world is bad, Theres bad in every community,yes,again if this made you say ah! heres a preacher,then search on web theres ton of information to prove this fact.What we do now-a-days is that we take one piece of informatioan and use it to turn that to harass and blame other without sitting and understanding what must have encouraged him/her to commit a crime because the spectacles limit our vision.

When we limit our vision we give the extremist from each spectrum a fodder to fight and create chaos which ensure our collective defeat but their advancement.

Remove your glasses and see the clear world,research and think.You have the power to create a better world,remove the bias of religion and race the world is clear and beautiful

Depression-the silent killer

I AM SORRY FOR NOT POSTING REGULARLY ,JERK I KNOW
I WILL POST LIKE 3 POSTS   IN A WEEK
Depression is a common word and is most often related to young  adults.... the YOLO gen or Gen Y
Guys today in this blog I am serious because this thing can  shit the freak out of a person and the worst part is you gotta have no idea that someone in your family , friends has it, worse even the person sometime have no freaking clue that there is depression.
So my dear freinds out there i am sorry once again for not posting for so long its idiotic i know my bad...... anyway

look guys the symptoms are sometime so mundane that we tend to ignore them its a heck of a disease man i swear God this is a damn disease , its yo gangsta it'll screw the hell out of you

it results in suicide,collapse of family, breakup , mental disorder

well if you are in a relationship and had a breakup or fight , i would beg you to mend it if you were serious or apologise because that one word can break up someone to a level you have no idea
1) winter blues - just in case a weather change occurs (it would obviously) it may happen you may feel bad ,lack confidence but this is temporary
2)do you smoke ? well you just got another reason to kick that out of your house
Culprit -Nicotine
3)do you know about Thyroid ?yeah must have heard of it, right?  Its a butterfly-shaped gland in the neck. it basically releases hormone ,if it doesnot then boy! you may fall in the red zone
4) booze! booze! my party night no sleeping party , full house party , are you a TGIF freak
your bad sleeping habits can put your biological clock go mad ...and then boom!
"If you don't sleep, you don't have time to replenish [brain cells], the brain stops functioning well, and one of the many factors that could lead to is depression," says Matthew Edlund, MD, director of the Center for Circadian Medicine, in Sarasota, Fla., and author of The Power of Rest.
5)numerous study have point a finger at facebook addiction , not ith enough scientific backing though but look whos behind you  !, hell so addicted man you forgot  no one there ,

Parents- bad parenting and abuse can put children at risks of depression ...
6) Conflict - dont mess with your partner if he/she is not a cool person!

eat omega 3 , fish actually , CHOCOLATE (eating dark chocolate  every day for two weeks reduced stress hormones, including cortisol) not too much ........listem to your mom eat fruits and veggies, coconut,banana

SO GUYS always help such people be kind ,dont be rude be helpful,and be happy and make everyone smile love you .........see ya

If you want me to talk about something e-mail me....i ll do my best to search and write
PLEASE COMMENT , please even if its improving you can be frank

STAND out of the crowd ..Proud to be different!

hi everyone....
This topic lies at the core of my heart , this is something which makes me emotional everytime I think of it ...
I am different and so are you my friends deep inside you.. are a diamond in the making sharping your blunt edges every day but...not everyone can understand  you... well be proud to be  who you are !

c'mon lets think about something which you are proud of but no one else understands that and you feel isolated and if this is something to which you can relate to, then my dear friend you are an amazing creation and believe me its amazing and if you are proud and brave enough to speak about your talents , if you are differently able, if your thoughts are radical and good for society but only a few can understand... well not everyone can afford diamonds can they? so why be scared ? why be humiliated? why why ....? ask
shout and say i am different and if you can boast of being different..... I love you so much!

I am not thinking about bland food... are you..? why did i ask such a weird silly question my diamond the world is boring without ..you ...man what are you waiting for your extraordinary mind is not for standardized people
oh trust me they are envious of you, crabs as i call them....seen crabs they pull each other down so one can climb up....
CHEER CHEER , Easter just went by and i realized it gave me a special gift it gave me ways to respect my ambitions and not everyone can understand me!!!!!!!!!

Back to fun days....

Hi everyone,
back to fun , well you must have got a hint from the title, childhood......the fun days....the carefree joy of this natural beauty , those little sweet lies and cute smile a lovely face glowing like gold, a heart as pure as a diamond,  those carefree moments which gave immense joy, do what you like, exploring a billion new things, curious face waiting to see a cheerful smile and a lovely day.... running and jumping all day.....ah! those moments

just when you have recalled all those joys.....ponder upon why overthink  so much about things which may not affect you as much....things that wont matter after a year...staying calm will help you panicking won't just in case you want that project of yours to be the best or that rose wrapped in the most innovative way for your crush express it in the best possible way, want to win hearts my friends be calm.... be calm

when you grow up....life fastens up suddenly you feel tensed, working day in and out , anxiously waiting for results worrying thats all but my friend take a break  whats the hurry..... take a seat have a glass of water think and smile for that joy was priceless, memories are full of love no heart break....!!!
 my friend childhood its gone but age is just a number after all add life to days!


ENJOY cheers!